An understanding of the dynamics of the other party can be helpful along with the awareness that the professional minister is responsible for their sexual boundaries.
Things that can be an issue after sexual abuse are - confusion, mind/ body dislocation, repression of memory of events, anxiety, fear, shame, broken relationships, post traumatic stress disorder, loss of faith.
A time of quiet after talking may assist you in hearing the spirit within you, guiding you to the next step. Prayer for healing also available.
If there is a desire to enter the Church process of complaint, it is expected that the appropriate Church will offer you support for their processes. |